
IMPORTANT UPDATE!
Please note that as of 8/11/23, Ms. Adah’s policies, procedures, and expectations have been updated and changes will apply to all patrons and situations moving forward.
Regardless of whether you are new or returning, make sure you READ and understand all information below prior to completing the Session Planning Form questions. Note that you cannot save your responses and return to them later.
Policies & Expectations
A. Session Confirmation Policy
The morning of your session, you MUST text and/or email Ms. Adah between 6am-9am to confirm whether you will make your appointment.
- Text: (609) 367-4764
- Email: ms_adah@protonmail.com
It is only prior to and during the 6-9am timeframe that you can request changes with no penalty.
If you fail to confirm your appointment for any reason, your session will be canceled and deposit forfeited.
To avoid being blacklisted regionally and nationally, and to make up for your lack of consideration for me as a professional, a $200 fee will be due. If this is paid, I may consider seeing you in the future and I will not report you on the safety forums as a time-waster.
B. Cancelations & Deposits
Canceling a Local or MD session
If you need to cancel a “Local” (NJ, Philadelphia region, or northern DE) or MD session (Baltimore, Hunt Valley, or White Marsh), and you notify Ms. Adah by 9am the morning of your session date, she will apply your deposit toward a new session date within 30 days of the original.
If you cannot reach a new-date agreement or if you cancel a 2nd time, your deposit will be forfeited.
In the event that by 9am you properly confirm your ability to attend a Local or MD session, but then subsequently need to cancel, or you inform Ms. Adah you will be more than 30min late, or if you NCNS, you will be expected to pay 100% of the session cost owed to avoid being regionally and nationally blacklisted.
If Ms. Adah needs to cancel a Local or MD session in Baltimore, Hunt Valley, or similar, she will offer to reschedule you for a new date within 60 days of the original. If you are unable to reach an agreement within 30 days, she will refund your deposit regardless of method used as long as you can accept Venmo, CashApp, or PayPal. If you cannot, rescheduling will be the only option or you will lose your deposit.
There is one additional exception to the above policies: if you properly confirm your ability to attend a Local or MD session by 9am, and you subsequently begin acting unstable, unpredictable, threatening, or disrespectful, Ms. Adah reserves the right to cancel your session and keep the deposit. You will also be regionally and nationally blacklisted to ensure you do not waste the time of, or pose a threat to, other providers.
Canceling a Tour Session
If you need to cancel a Tour session, and you give Ms. Adah 24-48hrs notice, she will attempt to reschedule you. If she cannot, you will be expected to pay a minimum of 50% of the remaining session cost owed.
If you cancel a Tour session with less than 24hrs notice, and Ms. Adah cannot reschedule you before leaving your area; or if you will be more than 30min late; or if you NCNS, you will be expected to pay 100% of the session cost owed.
If Ms. Adah needs to cancel a Tour session, and she has time remaining available in your area, she will offer to reschedule you. If you are unable to reach an agreement, she will refund your deposit, regardless of method used, as long as you can accept Venmo, CashApp, or PayPal. If you cannot, rescheduling will be the only option or you will lose your deposit.
There is one additional exception to the above policy: if you properly confirm your ability to attend a Tour session by 9am, and you subsequently begin acting unstable, unpredictable, threatening, or disrespectful, Ms. Adah reserves the right to cancel your session and keep the deposit. You will also be regionally and nationally blacklisted to ensure you do not waste the time of, or pose a threat to, other providers.
Note: If you have scheduled a Social Meet and NOT an in-person session, and you cancel at any time, the deposit will be forfeited. If you wish to reschedule, a new deposit will be required and your previous deposit will NOT be applied toward the total owed.
C. Session Preparation
Payment
The remainder of your session payment (total agreed upon minus deposit) is due as CASH in an unsealed envelope when you meet Ms. Adah: she will instruct you where to put it. Only individuals who have seen Ms. Adah at least 1x prior can request a different payment method (CashApp, Venmo, or Wishtender).
Tipping & Gifts
Tipping, while not mandatory, is always welcomed and deeply appreciated! Ms. Adah prefers tips over tangible gifts. If you wish to tip, the following options are appropriate:
- Cash tip included in envelope at beginning of session
- Cash tip at end of session
- Venmo, CashApp, or Wishtender tip at the end of session or sent within 24hrs of meeting
- Retail-store purchased Visa or Amazon gift card given in the beginning or end of the session
Ms. Adah also appreciates receiving a positive text or email after session completion! Well-written and/or unique, brief feedback may appear on her website with all identifying information removed.
Appearance & Hygiene
You may arrive to the session wearing any clothing you wish, from sweats to suits. However:
- You MUST arrive wearing underwear: no exceptions.
- You MUST NOT have on cologne or aftershave.
- You MUST NOT smell like cigarettes. Ms. Adah is repulsed by smoking.
- You MUST NOT smell like alcohol or weed.
- If you have not recently showered, it is acceptable to ask Ms. Adah if you can do so when you arrive but this will count toward your session time.
- If you have requested pegging, you MUST come “prepared” (Google how to do so if you are not sure).
D. Session Location & Arrival
For incall (Ms. Adah hosts), arrive no more than 15min before your appointment start time.
You MUST wait outside the property or inside your vehicle, and text (preferred) or email Ms. Adah to let her know you are there. She will reply with further instructions.
NEVER wait in the lobby unless Ms. Adah has told you it is ok (this is to ensure your privacy and safety, as well as hers).
If you are up to 30min late, the time will be deducted from your session. If you will be more than 30min late, the session will be canceled, your deposit forfeited, and you will be expected to pay 100% of session cost owed. In some cases, Ms. Adah may allow you to reschedule.
If Ms. Adah is visiting your location, she will send a text or email for your room info when she arrives. If you are in a hotel, make sure you pay attention to the elevator location and whether it needs a keycard for operation.
E. Session Start & Ending
Sessions begin when you enter Ms. Adah’s room, meet her in a public area, or she enters your location, if you are hosting.
For incall sessions where you are coming to Ms. Adah, approximately 10min of total session time will be applied toward your entrance, cleaning up (if needed), and de-briefing at the end. This time will be increased to a minimum of 15min for sessions 2hrs and longer.
If Ms. Adah is visiting you, up to 30min of total session time may be utilized for Ms. Adah to survey your space, change into her work clothes, setup her equipment, de-brief at the end, change and clean-up her equipment. For this reason, Ms. Adah typically requires a 1.5hr minimum for outcall.
For sessions 3hrs and greater, 30min or more of session time may be reserved for “public” time which can be incorporated into the experience. Ms. Adah will always discuss this matter with you prior to meeting so you know what to expect. In some cases, she may just leave you for up to 15min to get fresh air.
F. Cell Phones & Recording
During sessions, your phone must be on vibrate or silent unless you have a business or familial need to keep your ringer on. If you do, let Ms. Adah know before you begin activities.
There is absolutely no audio/video recording or photos allowed unless you and Ms. Adah have agreed on one or more of these options in advance, which may require an additional investment.
G. Safety, Health, and Comfort
Safe Words
Ms. Adah will require a safe-word and/or safe-gestures for sessions involving intense and/or potentially painful activities. A safe word is typically not required for sessions that are more psychological and less physical in nature and/or where open communication between you and Ms. Adah can be easily achieved.
Smoking, Vaping, 420, etc.
Ms. Adah HATES the smell of cigarettes and weed. She also does not allow vaping or weed smoking during sessions, and she will not perform sessions in rooms that smell like cigarettes or weed.
Substances
Ms. Adah does not see clients under the influence of drugs, including poppers, and/or those who are intoxicated. NO EXCEPTIONS. If you wish to have a drink during the session, Ms. Adah will typically allow this as long as it is not done in excess, which is at her discretion.
Weapons
Ms. Adah does not tolerate the visual presence of weapons of any kind in the session space. In the event she notices a weapon, the session will end and you will be required to leave the premises or Ms. Adah will leave yours. There will be NO refunds.
Behavior
If at any point during a session, your behavior seems erratic, alarming, disturbing, unpredictable, threatening, or unstable, your session will end and you will be required to leave the premises or Ms. Adah will leave yours. There will be NO refunds.
H. Respecting Boundaries
First and foremost, Ms. Adah is NOT an escort. Therefore, she does not offer nudity or the conventional, highly-intimate, mutual-touch activities escorts typically provide.
She also does not offer sensual massage.
Ms. Adah expects every client to demonstrate the utmost respect for her personal space, boundaries, rules, and expectations at all times.
Failure to do so, even if in a joking manner, will never be taken lightly.
Ms. Adah always has people aware of her precise location and she employs a check-in procedure when starting and ending sessions.
I. Post-Session Interests & Requests
Regulars
Many clients enjoy becoming “regulars.” While Ms. Adah appreciates opportunities to see clients more than once, she will never pressure anyone to rebook. She believes clients should take responsibility for reaching out when they have adequate time and resources available to meet.
Ms. Adah also requires that at least 30 days pass between each booking. This gives Ms. Adah the ability to consistently schedule her ever-evolving roster of new clients while supporting healthy boundaries with existing clients. Plus, absence makes the kink-heart grow fonder so each session can feel fresh and new!
Please note that regardless of how many times you have seen Ms. Adah, you will always be required to pay a deposit. Rates also fluctuate according to multiple factors (time of year, location, activity requests, availability, date, session start time, travel and hotel costs, etc), so there is no guarantee that what you paid in the past will be the same you will pay in the future: each time you request a session, Ms. Adah will determine the rate options appropriate for that distinct moment in time.
Requesting References
For clients who wish to see other providers, Ms. Adah will always be happy to provide a timely, appropriately-detailed reference as long as the following occurs:
- You have done adequate research before completing other provider booking forms
- You notify Ms. Adah in-advance which provider or providers will be reaching out
- You give Ms. Adah’s contact info to no more than 4 providers per month.
- You tip Ms. Adah for her time and effort: Venmo, CashApp, Wishtender, or Amazon emailed gift card ($25 per reference is appropriate but more is always appreciated!).
- Remember: References require Ms. Adah’s time and effort and are helping you to see another provider; therefore, it is only logical that you should tip for this service.