The Acceptable & the Forbidden

Before contacting me, carefully read the lists below so you understand what you can and cannot request to have included during your In-Person Experience or Remote Service.

There are no refunds if you schedule a real-life meeting, phone call, or text session and then realize I don’t offer what you are seeking.

Acceptable

Acceptable Kinky Activities

  • ABDL: with or without diaper mess
  • Ball busting
  • Beginner Session: I expose you to diverse, popular BDSM and Fetish interests to help you learn what you do and don’t enjoy
  • Blindfold
  • Bondage / restraint: rope, zip ties, plastic wrap, duct tape, stockings, handcuffs, etc
  • Breath play: hands, clothed body parts, special equipment
  • Cash meet / human ATM / finDomme
  • CBT
  • CEI
  • CFNM
  • Chastity
  • Clothespins
  • Cock leash
  • Collar & leash
  • Cross-dressing / feminization / sissification: many possibilities – I meet you where you are with what you desire
  • Degradation
  • Dehumanization / depersonalization
  • Edging
  • Electroplay: neonwand and zapper
  • Exhibitionism: client as exhibitionist
  • Facesitting: clothed-only
  • Fetish: many options but make sure what you want isn’t on the “Unacceptable” list
  • Food-based fantasies: sploshing, pie smashing, “forced” feeding, etc
  • Foot worship and play
  • Forced-bi: fantasy or real (for real, we must meet 1x alone first)
  • Forced intoxication: fantasy only (NO poppers or other substances)
  • Gags: ball, stocking, panties, etc
  • Golden play (piss with or without consumption): Note that I determine how you receive this activity and it will NOT involve seeing my private parts
  • High protocol
  • Hoods, masks, and face coverings
  • Human furniture
  • Humiliation – Tasks
  • Humiliation – Verbal
  • Impact play: flogger, paddle, hand, whips, canes, OTK, etc
  • JOI
  • Kink Massage (FBSM with light BDSM): Kink Massage is different from a Session as there is NO Domme/sub dynamic, NO role play, & almost no talking
  • Lock-up and/or strict bondage with or without ignore/abandon
  • Nipple play
  • Pegging & anal play: small to medium toys only; NO multiple toys; NO fingers; session must include other activities
  • Polaroid photo: taken during session with only 1 copy in existence
  • Public-only experience: public space and/or outdoors
  • Public-to-Private or Private-to-Public Combination (great for role play)
  • Release or Release-denial
  • Role play: area of expertise – see next section for options
  • Sensory deprivation
  • Sensation play: variety of techniques & equipment
  • Sensual to sadistic domination (you choose where my demeanor will fall on the spectrum)
  • Shoe worship: dirty or clean heels, sneakers, boots, etc
  • Silent experience: sensory deprivation & no talking
  • Slapping: face and other body parts
  • Smothering: clothed-only
  • Spanking (impact play)
  • SPH
  • Spitting / drooling
  • Sploshing (food play)
  • Stocking / pantyhose fetish
  • Strap-on (dildo) worship
  • Submission: see next section for unique offering
  • Swirlies
  • Tease and denial
  • Tickling
  • Trampling
  • Unique & unusual fantasies (a favorite!)
  • Vibrators and similar stimulation toys
  • Watersports: see “Golden play” above
  • Wax play
  • Wedgies
  • Other: open to requests that DO NOT appear on the “Unacceptable” list

Acceptable Role Plays & Scenarios

  • Abduction
  • ABDL
  • Age play
  • Blackmail (fantasy only!)
  • Boss & employee
  • Bully
  • Business owner & government official
  • Casino adventure: available in Atlantic City, Philadelphia, etc
  • Castration and/or penectomy fantasy
  • Confession
  • Cult requiring male sacrifice
  • Domestic service; maid/servant
  • Doctor & patient
  • Domme & submissive, sissy, slave, etc
  • Enchantress or witch
  • Execution
  • Exorcism
  • Exposure: includes real or virtual audience
  • Sissification, Feminization, etc: intentional or magical
  • Female-led society
  • Fortune teller
  • Giantess
  • Hostage
  • Horror film inspiration: you pick the film and I re-envision it
  • Hypnotist and/or hypnosis
  • Interrogation
  • Male population control
  • Massage Gone Wrong: this is a Role Play and different from Kink Massage
  • Medieval queen & peasant, slave, pet
  • Mommy, Daddy, Step-Mom, etc: I will play these roles, but will NOT engage in vanilla dirty talk or activities
  • Older, mature woman (cougar, MILF, etc): I will play these roles, but will NOT engage in vanilla, conventional dirty talk
  • Pet play: pony, pig, puppy, etc
  • Porn director (me) & amateur, desperate actor (you)
  • Psychologist, psychiatrist, counselor, life coach & you as patient or client
  • Revenge scenario: ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, ex-employee etc
  • Parole officer & parolee
  • (Mad) Scientist & clinical trial or test subject
  • Slut training, slut shaming
  • Sorority sisters
  • Submissive: see section below
  • Superhero & villain
  • Teacher, professor, tutor & student
  • Unique & unusual fantasies (a favorite!)
  • Other: submit requests that DO NOT appear on the “Unacceptable” list

Acceptable Submissive Roles

On rare occasion, I may agree to play a submissive role (never switch) provided your Session concept is inventive, safe, and theatrically compelling.

I absolutely will not submit in any way that involves tickling, pain, or bondage or “Unacceptable Intimacy, Activities, Role Plays, & Scenarios” listed in the next section.

The Forbidden

Unacceptable Intimacy

  • I am NOT an escort. Repeat: I am NOT an escort.
  • NO activities that require insertion of your body parts into mine.
    • NO sex
    • NO oral sex
    • NO kissing
  • NO touching me without permission (and touch will always be very restricted and never directed toward my covered parts)
  • NO nudity (me)
  • NO cuddling
  • NO conventional, vanilla sexual talk or fantasies
  • NO talk suggesting I would engage in conventional sexual activities with you
  • NO explicit, sexual Cuck talk

Forbidden General Request

  • NO outfit, hair, makeup requests unless they are related to a specific fetish that will be explored as part of the experience.

Forbidden Activities, Role Plays, etc.

  • NO Advanced and/or pro-longed anal play
  • NO Large anal toys
  • NO On-your-back anal toy insertion
  • NO “Aftercare” (in a BDSM context) requiring comforting physical contact
  • NO Bartering: clients seeking to do chores or service in exchange for services
  • NO BBC talk or fantasies
  • NO Biting
  • NO Blackmail: fantasy is available but NOT real
  • NO Blood play
  • NO Body worship other than feet
  • NO Breath play leading to loss of consciousness
  • NO Breast smothering
  • NO Impact play that draws significant blood
  • NO Couples experiences (I no longer see couples)
  • NO Cuck fantasies requiring me to talk about you having intimate contact with my body or seeing me be intimate with someone else
  • NO Cutting or puncturing skin
  • NO Discounts: don’t ask!
  • NO Edge play with objects that could cause serious harm
  • NO Face punching or knockouts
  • NO Face sitting (nude): clothed only
  • NO Farting
  • NO Feces-based activities (NO FTT or similar)
  • NO Financial domination without deposit
  • NO Fire play
  • NO Forced intoxication (real): fantasy only
  • NO Harm to animal, insect, child: NO real or fantasy
  • NO Homewrecking fantasies
  • NO Lift & carry
  • NO Long-term arrangements lacking clear expectations and time commitment
  • NO Martial arts
  • NO Medical play requiring extensive props, equipment, and special knowledge
  • NO Mommy incest fantasies
  • NO Nuru or Tantric massage
  • NO Physical competition (real or fantasy)
  • NO Physical strength activities (lift & carry, wrestling, etc)
  • NO Poppers or other intoxicating substances allowed
  • NO Prostate massage using fingers
  • NO Public activities that could easily attract negative attention
  • NO Race topics or any related to discrimination or fetishization of people, beliefs, disabilities, etc
  • NO Ruby showers
  • NO Roman showers
  • NO Severe ball-busting / trampling / CBT that could lead to long-term injury
  • NO Shibari
  • NO Smoking sessions, fetishes, or fantasies
  • NO Smothering with nude body parts
  • NO Sounding
  • NO Suspension
  • NO Toilet training (FTT) or other feces activities
  • NO Used clothing sales if less than $200
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How to Reach Me

Please know I keep all communication efficient, professional, and focused throughout the inquiry and booking process for any experience or service.

Communication options include:

  1. Text (regular): (609) 367-4764
  2. WhatsApp message: (609) 367-4764
  3. Signal message: (609) 367-4764
  4. Email: adahfaust@protonmail.com
  5. Phone Consultation Call: request through a method above

If you send an email and don’t receive a response within 8hrs, check your spam folder.

Introductory message should include:

  • Your first name
  • In-Person Experience or Remote Service you are seeking
  • Brief list or description of MAIN kink interests (if relevant)
  • City/town and state location (for In-Person requests)
  • Availability (if limited/specific)
  • DO NOT include pics of yourself: we are not going on a date – you are booking a professional service
  • If you want to make an especially positive first impression, consider sending a gift with your initial message. It doesn’t have to be extravagant. Even $25 virtual payment or Amazon gift card will persuade me to think you are not a timewaster and have done your research before contacting me.

I welcome individuals from all backgrounds, races, nationalities, body types, abilities, and experience levels. However, you must:

  • Communicate respectfully at all times;
  • Be at least 21 years old;
  • Be English language fluent (reading, writing, and speaking).
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Gifts

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When you reach out, or if you simply wish to demonstrate appreciation, separate yourself from the timewasters by sending a gift. All amounts appreciated.

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